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The attitude of Turks towards Russian girls
I recently visited Turkey and stumbled upon the free attitude of Turks towards Russian women, and they could come up and offer something obscene even with their parents or a young man. I would like to know if all the resorts are like this and is it worth going there again?
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It all depends on the behavior of the girl herself and whether she gives a reason for such an attitude towards her. I will not deny that the Turks are spoiled by the attention from our girls and they know that if they offend one, others will go to them anyway.
In more European resorts (Cesme, Didim, etc.), this is not so felt.
In more European resorts (Cesme, Didim, etc.), this is not so felt.
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answered 16 years ago
I have been to Turkey several times already, there was nothing like this, depending on how you behave, even light flirting is accepted as an invitation to the beach at night and to closer communication, but they won’t do anything to you if you don’t want it! It all depends on the behavior of the girl. I’ve never been like this with me, but I rested in Belek, Kemer mostly
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answered 16 years ago
I have been with my husband more than once, and apart from compliments, I have not heard anything. And when I was with my friends, of course, they paid more attention, but they did not encounter *obscenities*. In any case, on the territory of the hotel. Of course, at local discos, this may be the case. I don't know, it wasn't.
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answered 16 years ago
Strange ... There were no obscene proposals to me. And how many girls I know were there, there was nothing like that. Yes, there have been repeated attempts to get to know each other, to invite them to a restaurant. Hehe. But it all depends on the girl herself. What are the Turks doing here?! I have always politely refused. She also noticed that if she said that she was married, then they were treated with such respect. I have a bright face. In general, the Turks took me for an Italian or a Brazilian. But when they found out that I was from Russia, I didn’t hear anything vulgar in my address. In general, it is necessary to communicate with them with a smile. If they tried to invite you somewhere, then I, for example, politely refused. So they also tried to give me some gifts (this is with regard to merchants). So the Turks left the most positive impression. I don’t know where you rested, maybe they stick like that at discos, but I didn’t go to city discos
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answered 16 years ago
I have already been to Turkey 2 times ... The first time with my brother, the second time with a young man. I didn’t notice any vulgarity and obscenity in my address ... On the territory of the hotel, the waiters, however, were at first too attentive and caring :) But as soon as they saw that I was not alone, all this immediately stopped. No one sticks to anyone, if you do not give a reason. I haven’t been to local discos, I don’t know what attitude there is. But in the city and in the hotel everything is fine, if you keep it strictly courteous and aloof.
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answered 16 years ago
Turks know how to look after very beautifully:) moreover, they are spoiled for attention from Russian tourists (especially women over 30). yes, they can offer you anything ... BUT, if you said no, then for them it is a taboo, no one will touch you with a finger. You can not be afraid to stay one on one with a Turk - everything will depend only on your desire!
This is how they differ from the Russians! I had a rest in Turkey this year - the problem was only with a Russian who did not understand the word "no" and at night he burst into my room that I had to call for help.
You won't expect this from the Turks.
This is how they differ from the Russians! I had a rest in Turkey this year - the problem was only with a Russian who did not understand the word "no" and at night he burst into my room that I had to call for help.
You won't expect this from the Turks.
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answered 16 years ago
I have never seen anything like this in Turkey or Egypt, I usually rest with my husband + friends
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answered 16 years ago
Twice I was in Turkey and both times I was faced with an abundance of male attention. If a girl arrives with a smell, they can just look at her with interest, but nothing more. It is taboo for them. Also, if you start to spin with one of the Turks, the rest stop paying attention. But, in general, the Turks do nothing just like that, they don’t give roses just like that, they don’t treat you with a cocktail just like that, if you accepted a sign of attention, then you should somehow thank him. And they have a standard entertainment program, a disco or a beach, they are not capable of more. On the beach, you understand, they count not only on the stars with you to watch. And in general, they treat Russian girls with carelessness, because they are already very greedy for their attention, beautiful words, etc. And all why? Yes, because in Russia you will not expect this from our peasants! Cold Russia and hot Turkey .. And what beautiful Turks sometimes come across!
By the way, the appearance of girls is not important to them, the main thing is that she be female, well, not very old. Up to 30 girls cater for all types (well, blondes have a special respect, of course), after 30 it declines, they are afraid to get involved.
By the way, the appearance of girls is not important to them, the main thing is that she be female, well, not very old. Up to 30 girls cater for all types (well, blondes have a special respect, of course), after 30 it declines, they are afraid to get involved.
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answered 16 years ago
Well, in general, you need to be more careful at discos. True, the Turks are not too upset if they are refused. They still have a lot of choice without you. In no case should you fall in love with them, because this, as they say, is "unpromising." Very often they promise to come to you in Russia, but so far I don’t know of such cases ...
It’s also unsafe to sleep with them (if it’s a holiday romance), you never know with whom and what you’ll pick up. Well, this is a warning for especially extreme girls. =)
It’s also unsafe to sleep with them (if it’s a holiday romance), you never know with whom and what you’ll pick up. Well, this is a warning for especially extreme girls. =)
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answered 16 years ago
I agree with everyone, if you behave decently, then no one will touch you. I was twice in Turkey, with my sister. The attitude of the Turks is the same, both to the Russians, and to the Ukrainians, and to the Germans. They lglavnoe to a woman. In general, if you say no, they understand it. It all depends on the person.
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answered 16 years ago
I agree with everyone, if you behave decently, then no one will touch you. I was twice in Turkey, with my sister. The attitude of the Turks is the same, both to the Russians, and to the Ukrainians, and to the Germans. They lglavnoe to a woman. In general, if you say no, they understand it. It all depends on the person.
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answered 16 years ago
I agree with everyone, I was with my husband, yes, they make compliments, but this is not an obscene proposal, is it? In general, I really liked them.
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answered 16 years ago
I don’t know - for the 2nd year I have been resting in Turkey alone, and there was nothing like it! It all depends on the behavior of the girl - others dress like that and put on so much makeup that they really look like prostitutes. And if any preoccupied one comes up - just send it. No options.
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answered 16 years ago
If you don’t give a reason, you won’t find any adventures on your head ...
you have to have self esteem...
you have to have self esteem...
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answered 16 years ago
I ball twice in Turkey. And both times with my younger sister, a prominent girl. She herself is with her husband and daughter - I'm interested in a family vacation, but I took my sister. She's a little over 20. So both times, naturally, there were boyfriends from the locals. But what surprised me and my husband most of all - before offering something to her - for example, a trip to a disco or an evening walk along the beach - they came up to me and asked permission. For the first time, I was simply shocked and answered rather rudely - I am not a decree for her, she is an adult. But, when it happened again and again, I realized that this is how it is accepted. And it turned out yes, they explained to me that if a girl came with her elders - it doesn’t matter if her mother, father, sister or someone else - you should ask permission from them, and only then from this girl. I do not know, but we have never had a negative situation
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answered 16 years ago
I've been twice, once with my sister and once with my husband.
Yes - a lot of attention and compliments, BUT always
decent and within. Neither in relation to myself, nor other girls on vacation / Russians, Ukrainians, Belarusians, etc. / did I observe obscenities, although among OUR girls there are those still masterpieces :)))
Perhaps you met "in a family with black sheep" - but this is an exception, Turkish men are very friendly, smiling and unobtrusive.
Yes - a lot of attention and compliments, BUT always
decent and within. Neither in relation to myself, nor other girls on vacation / Russians, Ukrainians, Belarusians, etc. / did I observe obscenities, although among OUR girls there are those still masterpieces :)))
Perhaps you met "in a family with black sheep" - but this is an exception, Turkish men are very friendly, smiling and unobtrusive.
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answered 16 years ago
Yes, thanks to everyone for the advice, but I behaved decently, and I didn’t dress provocatively either .. most likely these are stereotypes, since there really are “masterpieces” among our compatriots. But a woman told me how on the territory of the hotel she was attacked by a waiter when she was rinsing herself in the shower near the pool ..
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answered 16 years ago
I join all of the above))) Indeed, if you yourself do not want to, no one will do anything to you!!! And this is in any country, adventures to the 5th point can be found anywhere, and there are enough freaks everywhere ...
As for holiday romances.... mmmm... I'm in favor ;) well, it's cool when you have something to remember))) But, dear girls, be careful. This is your health.
IRUNDA- I would like to say that sometimes holiday weekly romances end beautifully. I have 2 girls got married like that ... I came to Novosibirsk already to one and live happily, and the other went there, she does not regret it. Once in a while it doesn't have to...
The main thing is not to bother and relax to the fullest))))
As for holiday romances.... mmmm... I'm in favor ;) well, it's cool when you have something to remember))) But, dear girls, be careful. This is your health.
IRUNDA- I would like to say that sometimes holiday weekly romances end beautifully. I have 2 girls got married like that ... I came to Novosibirsk already to one and live happily, and the other went there, she does not regret it. Once in a while it doesn't have to...
The main thing is not to bother and relax to the fullest))))
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answered 16 years ago
The absolute truth is that exactly what you want will happen to you. On the territory of the hotel - in general, everything is simple - it is practically forbidden for the service staff to communicate with tourists on free topics. Outside the territory .. I would not advise you to go alone to a local disco (if increased attention is not an end in itself)
holiday romance - I'm also for) and they look after beautifully and I also know cases with continuation
Anastasiya17 - about the attack of the waiter - honestly, I'm sure that it's complete nonsense. For them (the Turks) such an attack is tantamount to losing their jobs. And secondly, it doesn't make much sense to attack)
The maximum attack is to kiss the hand (but even then - not the hotel staff, but among the merchants)))
holiday romance - I'm also for) and they look after beautifully and I also know cases with continuation
Anastasiya17 - about the attack of the waiter - honestly, I'm sure that it's complete nonsense. For them (the Turks) such an attack is tantamount to losing their jobs. And secondly, it doesn't make much sense to attack)
The maximum attack is to kiss the hand (but even then - not the hotel staff, but among the merchants)))
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answered 16 years ago
For the first time I hear that the staff is pestering. Also on the territory. They can joke, smile, and no more. For any wrong movement, they are immediately fired, without any explanation. You probably just didn’t understand something.
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answered 16 years ago
For every "product" there is a buyer. Listen to yourself: if you want to lie down on the beach - lie down, if you want romantic adventures - you will find them, or maybe sex? - you're welcome. Everyone gets what they are looking for and what they are ready for. And about harassment in Turkey - nonsense. The staff is smiling and friendly because it is their job, an individual approach. Well, as for night walks with strangers - I don’t practice them at home, even more so in a foreign country without knowing the local language. Nothing will happen to you without your consent.
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answered 16 years ago
Great attitude. You feel like a queen! A lot of pleasant attention (I am blond), very courteous, courteous and playful. If you do not want to make contact, they will not insist.
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answered 16 years ago
I totally agree. with reviews. The girl chooses what she wants. The Turks are very respectful of Russian girls ... they, of course, can look at them, but if the girl does not want to do anything with her, they will not do anything.
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answered 16 years ago
Turks have not been very good with Russian-speaking girls lately. I talked with the guide girl, she says that many of the Russian-speaking visitors hang themselves on the Turks, so this is the attitude of the Turks, who think that all girls are available. It all depends on the behavior of the girl. Although I always relax with a guy, I always get some kind of invitation (in secret, when I go to the toilet or in a Turkish bath), all sorts of winks. Just ignore that and that's it, no one will approach you.
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answered 16 years ago
You know, I would write like this .... The Turks are already accustomed to being quite free in relation to women not from their country. This needs to be stopped in its entirety. The main thing is louder and with more attention.
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answered 16 years ago
I want to say that, of course, they always pay attention. They constantly look, maybe they smile, but no one offers anything in cash! That's for sure! I'm not the first time in Turkey and I've seen enough!
And I think there is a special attitude towards Russian girls, but this is only because the girls themselves are to blame! No need to hang yourself around the neck. Just for all these years that Russian tourism has flourished in Turkey, there has already been a general opinion about Russian, Ukrainian girls - easily accessible, and it’s their own fault! But at the same time, the Turks still behave with dignity, I think, because none of them grabs your hands and doesn’t shout anything in pursuit. Their attention is a look in your direction, and there It's up to you to decide whether to accept it or not.
I can't say anything bad about Turkish guys.
And I think there is a special attitude towards Russian girls, but this is only because the girls themselves are to blame! No need to hang yourself around the neck. Just for all these years that Russian tourism has flourished in Turkey, there has already been a general opinion about Russian, Ukrainian girls - easily accessible, and it’s their own fault! But at the same time, the Turks still behave with dignity, I think, because none of them grabs your hands and doesn’t shout anything in pursuit. Their attention is a look in your direction, and there It's up to you to decide whether to accept it or not.
I can't say anything bad about Turkish guys.
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answered 14 years ago
I was in Turkey for a long time in Marmaris with a friend when I was 23 years old. I did not like to constantly fend off obsessive Turks. I'm not a fan of holiday romances. Therefore, there were no provocations on my part. At the disco, the guards did not allow the Turks to approach foreigners. I liked it. But it was hard to fight back on the street. I had to yell "POLICE" to scare them off. After this trip, I vowed never to go to Turkey again. To each his own.
Now I prefer to travel to Asian countries. There is no need to fend off anyone.
Now I prefer to travel to Asian countries. There is no need to fend off anyone.
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answered 13 years ago
the Turks are spoiled by Russian girls ... they skillfully breed our girls, and they are being led ... yes, no one will undoubtedly take you by force ... and they have a level of nobility, only their own, traditional ... Turks are jealous if you If you meet them, then you should not be seen with anyone else ... but these relationships are not particularly long and have no future ... although Turkish guys are quite smart, friendly, polite, kind and hot ...
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answered 13 years ago
in most cases, the Turks simply simply breed our girls. They “blow” compliments about a beautiful life with him in their ears, and so on ... but in the vast majority of cases this is a divorce ... they had such and still will be, they do this every And then when you wake up, and the prince has already disappeared ... There was a real case with my friend, she fell head over heels in love with a Turk, didn’t listen to anyone, as a result, he played with her, enjoyed all the benefits and found a new one, and then she sobbing through the night...
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answered 12 years ago
It is safe to be on the territory of the hotel, but NEVER leave the hotel alone! Was the first time in Turkey in 2011. With my sister, the Turks landed in Istanbul. They hissed, they spanked. We yelled at them NO NO. They didn't hear us. Fortunately, we have good relations with our neighbors, Russian guys. They saved us. Almost beat them up. In Turkey, it is good only on the territory of the hotel. Advice without fellow guys do not go out of the territory.
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answered 12 years ago
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