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Which country is better to fly with a child of 3.5 years for the new year
Desirable flight 4-5 hours
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6 subscribers  • asked 2011-11-0513 years ago
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аватар magazin_new
With such a child, it is generally better to stay at home and not test his body for resistance to various risk factors, such as: temperature changes, water, food, etc. So stay in Ukraine and spend the New Year as you should, with your husband and child.
аватар S.katyukha
My husband is me, and with a child we fly three times a year from a year
аватар Ruslan33
I would recommend Finland. Not cheap, for a week for three you will get about 4-5 thousand dollars, depending on the level of the hotel and the program of events. I would fly to Norway myself. Cheaper is Belarus, here at 1.5 thousand USD. they will simply arrange a holiday for the soul and body. If you like beach holidays, then Egypt is the best. You just need to decide now, in a couple of weeks there will be almost no choice, everything is sold out in advance
аватар Ruslan33
Demion2002 With a child, in your opinion, it is necessary to sit in your hometown until the age of 18 and not stick out. What if it knocks out his tender psyche? My child is 11 months old and we are flying to Egypt in a week. We now have minus 3 degrees, and in Hurghada + 26. And still, you have to be a very unloving parent to imprison your own child in the captivity of psychopathic caring and laboratory vacuum conditions. 3.5 years is a great age for any travel. I plan to fly to Tahiti or the Dominican Republic by that age of the child
аватар magazin_new
Ruslan33, No, in my opinion, yes, and in the opinion of thousands of doctors, psychologists, ordinary people (parents), etc., a child growing up remembers something starting from the age of 7, and even in meager scraps! Then why the hell would you bring it with you? What are you trying to prove or show him, or still heal - so it's unlikely? But on the plane every time a family always appears, which considers itself above all. They drag with them a negligent child who cries the whole way, he is not comfortable and stuff like that. Other passengers feel banal discomfort from this. Personally, I want to come up and charge between the eyes of such a father of the family (for the prevention of dybilism), so that next time he and his wife fly off and not torment themselves, their wife and the passengers of the flight! In general, read a little "for" and "against" dragging children around the resorts:
- http://www.2mm.ru/dosug/120
- http://www.allwomens.ru/9646-vse-za-i-protiv-otdyxa-s-grudnym-rebenkom.html
Well, if that doesn't work for you, then just enjoy your vacation!
That's funny, I don't know how you can have sex on vacation when a two-trk, etc.-year-old child is sleeping nearby. Or are you resting on vacation and from sex too ?!)))).
аватар magazin_new
S.katyukha, oh ... how awkward it is for me to write this, but M, you definitely can’t replace it. And that's just based on one gender. But even a child needs somewhere toughness, and to run in football, and once to go to the gym, and ride a bicycle, and then learn to drive a car. Good luck with your vacation.
аватар Ruslan33
Demion2002, don’t be ridiculous about thousands of doctors (we have just a few thousand of them in our country, let alone thousands of psychologists. I myself am a psychologist by education, and so, trust my knowledge and experience: children are not taken to rest for the sake of their impression! I have two hours I don’t see my child and I miss him madly, and not seeing him for two weeks is torment, not rest, worse than Chinese torture. As for the benefits and harms of flying. The whole life of a child is movement, flights and moving, adaptation and adaptation. If you deprive him this, he will simply be unsuitable. No, I am not a supporter of Spartan education in the spirit of gypsies. But everything should be in moderation. And trips, and rest, and its absence. So when you think to star between the eyes of the father of such a family, think, not is he wrong and he will not star you back, and even someone will add so that you will continue to understand elementary things! As for sex ... And how do you have sex at home? Is the child in the next room?
Well, take a family room with 2 rooms, and there will be no problems! In addition, you can work out during the day, leaving the child with a nanny. In addition, there is a children's room, a children's pool, there are also those in charge. I think you can do it 15-16 times a day and night. Or is it not enough for you?
аватар Mila__
I was on a plane for 3+ hours next door to a family with 2 small children. For children, the flight was tiring, they both roared and banged their feet and hands on the chair and threw things. I can sympathize with both children and their parents, but who will sympathize with me?
аватар magazin_new
Mila500, here you are 100% right. But, they just don't understand (the parents of these kids).
аватар magazin_new
Ruslan33, I realized that you are a psychologist and are very attached to your child - this is very wonderful. So it should be, he is not a stranger to you, but taking him on a tour with flights so that he stays with a nanny or in a children's room or in a pool is too much. You answered your own question. without even realizing it. It is not clear why parents drag such young children to where discomfort awaits them ?! But, parents just know better.
аватар Ruslan33
Again, if you can't wait to have sex, you can use a lot of options. Personally, I don’t experience problems with this on vacation, but I won’t leave my child with a nanny just like that. As for flying with children... I have flown many times and if you take statistics, 80-90 percent of children behave calmly, and only 10-20% of children suffer. Often because of the stupidity of parents. They should be aware that the main burden for the child is during landing and landing, they must be given a drink, a lollipop, somehow relieved. But parents, on the contrary, begin to almost scold them. Even Soviet planes are very noisy, it is better to choose airbuses and Boeings (corresponding airlines). In general, this topic is very controversial. Gentlemen, if you think that a child does not remember anything before the age of 7, it means that he does not need to be shown anything, for God's sake! Let him sit at home and be dumb! Why does he need kindergarten? He won't remember! And no toys!
And in general, before the age of 7, it is better to hand it over to an orphanage, and then take it back when the memory appears! For God's sake! And my son, in the first year of his life, looked for half of Russia and saw a lot, he is always with us and develops well, and we are not attached, and his psyche is very calm! So if you don't want to - don't, only time will judge everyone!
аватар sigur62
I fully support the point of view of Demion2002. The temperature difference is harmful to the child's immunity. No options. Any freshman in nursing school knows that. So what about "getting healthier" - bullshit.
But about the fact that the screams and squeals of your child for you - heavenly music, and for everyone else - a spoiled vacation and wasted money - that's right. After all, people do not go to the pioneer camp. So with a child, it’s still better to go to a children’s sanatorium or to a village with a grandmother.
About Finland. Ruslan, you bring some wild numbers. Many of us travel inexpensively, rent cottages for 7-10 days on the lakes, much more interesting and pleasant than in a hotel in the city. Finnish towns are small, and there is essentially nothing to do there, but the winter nature in Finland is something! Reindeer riding, quad biking, skiing and Finnish sleigh rides - nothing better for a child. Have a nice rest!
аватар Ruslan33
sigur62 about immunity is bullshit. Apparently, in Soviet times, as they taught about harm in medical schools, it remained so. Read more data. Although temperature fluctuations in walruses, in thousands of people who dive into ice holes in winter, strengthen immunity, people do not catch colds and do not get sick for years. About the screams. A child's squeals are usually a parent's problem. If a child knocks with his feet on an airplane and throws things, this is not bad for him, and parents simply cannot keep track of them, there is no upbringing. And do not compose that children so terribly endure the rumble of an airplane !!! This is bullshit! I suspect that your presence in the first year of medical school was not long!
About Finland. I quoted the price taking into account visits to Santa Claus. This is the point of visiting Finland for the new year. And just to come there and eat grilled meat can be cheaper in Russia (Ukraine), mountain-a-a-azdo is cheaper!
Here in Vladimir you can ride snowmobiles, snowmobiles, quad bikes and sleds with dogs and even deer! What is the point of going to Finland?
аватар sigur62
Ruslan, if your child stays in the hole not for a second, but for a week, you will not recognize him))) So the example about the hole is unsuccessful.
And further. It doesn’t matter to those around him whether the child yells and squeals from the fact that he is ill, or from the fact that his parents are like that.
Let's close the topic. Your child, do with him what you want, just do not cause inconvenience to others. By the way, it's a very good idea to spend New Year's Eve in Vladimir. Take advantage of her. Have a nice rest!
аватар Ruslan33
I agree, the debate has dragged on. The right of every parent to decide where to take their child. There will always be disputes. As for Vladimir, I usually celebrate the New Year here. Only once I wanted to meet him at a local rest house, wooden houses in a pine forest, Veles is called. So, from December 31 to January 5, rest in it with meals only breakfast cost .... 105,000 rubles, or almost $ 3,500! Despite the fact that in addition to accommodation, breakfast and New Year's Eve, nothing else is included in this price. If you add the rest, plus all the skiing, entertainment, the amount can easily exceed 5-7 thousand dollars! So, Lord, either everyone went to Belarus, or they took a sled and went up the hill for free! ))
аватар magazin_new
Ruslan33, but regarding the rest in Belarus in the winter - it's super. Well done Lukashenka! He built a remarkable ski resort - SILICHI (near Logoisk). If you go from Minsk, about 50 kilometers. And the price is acceptable and the quality. You can see this as you have in Vladimir, so we have prices in the well-known resort of Bukovel or Slavske. Prices are skyrocketing.
аватар Ruslan33
Yes, we will go skiing in Belarus.
аватар victorias
4-5 hours - within this framework, Egypt, the Emirates, Israel, all of Europe ... Europe is closer, in the sense of a flight.
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