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A guy from Baku invites me (I live in Odessa) to visit. Is it worth it to be afraid?
We have been communicating by email and phone for over a year now. He wants to get married, but the family is against it, of course. I think that in the end the family will finish me there, and I don’t like that they have discrimination. I think so at least. Tell me what really awaits me there. All as I suppose or not.
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It all depends on the particular family. There is no special discrimination there. The problem is more inflated and is based on relations that have been preserved in the villages, and not in Baku or Ganja. You can navigate by what education he has, what he does, how much his family considers himself to be an intelligentsia. The phrase-family, of course, is against-wrong .There are a lot of mixed marriages in Azerbaijan and this has long become the norm in large cities, especially in Baku. The main thing is not to behave provocatively. There is nothing to be afraid of, people are everywhere)))
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answered 17 years ago
Everything, of course, depends on the guy and the level of intelligence of his family, however, one should not forget about the mentality and traditions (which are still very strong not only in villages, but also in large cities such as Baku)! No matter how well you behave, be at least the sweetest and most wonderful girl, but if the union of his parents is not international, then the family will not accept you, and if your boyfriend agrees to marry without the consent of his parents (anything happens), then they will not accept you, even after having children. And to be honest, the clash of two cultures, Eastern and European, is hard, and most importantly, children suffer. Good luck to you from the bottom of my heart! But if you go, take your sister, brother, girlfriend with you. Good luck!
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answered 15 years ago
Thanks a lot for the warning. Everything turned out terrible. I was there, spent a wonderful week, but no one with his relative wanted to fundamentally meet with me, I kept thinking that we are different, it’s my fault ... But it turned out to be trite, he was married, but did not live with his wife. Relatives understand why they were freezing, but I'm a fool !!! I found out only when I returned and thank God, it would probably have been even more painful there. This is how gullible girls are being deceived!!! And what sweet speeches were, it's just hard to tell ... C
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answered 15 years ago
I found myself in a similar situation, but I didn’t promise to marry, but there were conversations. I flew to Baku to see him. Everything was wonderful. She returned happy, and after a while she found out that he had been engaged all this time to another.
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answered 15 years ago
Well, such whistlers are not only in Baku when it comes to marriage) And so you can safely go for a walk to relax
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answered 14 years ago
What is their relationship with guests? how outsiders look at Russian girls. The guy also calls me to Baku, but there is only one problem - he immediately said that an official marriage is not possible, but if I stay there, he will be there. So I'm very interested in how they will receive me there? can anyone advise? I would be grateful for any information, tk. I want to go and see this city
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answered 11 years ago